How to Not Let Other People’s Negative Opinions Affect You

Did you know that our thoughts are constantly changing? Some philosophers have even suggested that we exist in a state of flux. Meaning that our thoughts and ideas are always shifting from one perspective to another. One moment you may think of someone in a negative aspect and the next, it’s changed for the better.

So all the more reason to never care about what other people think of you, because really it doesn’t matter anyway!

1.You Know How To Say No

You are confident and comfortable speaking your own truth. You live in alignment with your soul and you honour and respect your heart desires, even if it means rejecting the approval of those around you.

2.The Opinion of Yourself is the Most Important

You know deep down inside that the opinions and judgement’s of others are more about themselves, than they are about you. You embrace this and understand that the opinion you have of yourself, is the one the matters most. You hold yourself to your own standard and aren’t afraid to show it.

3.You’re Worth isn’t Measured by Your wealth

50 Ways to Live Life Without RegretsYour possessions don’t define you. What you have, isn’t who you are and no amount of wealth could ever bring you true happiness. You know that true wealth is measured by the things in which you would never take money for and you value others who feel the same.

4.You Do What Feels Good for You

You know that its impossible to please everyone, and life’s way too short to even try! You make a point to live a balanced and harmonious life and know that true joy comes first from within.

5. You Make Your Own Path

You don’t follow the pack or go along with everyone around you– just to be agreeable. You are the only one who can live your life, and you understand that when you go along with the crowd you, and only you will be stuck with the end result.

“When you’re comfortable and content with who you are, the voices of others who try and define, control or direct you are not important.” Rachel Robins

by LJ Vanier

Team Spirit!!