7 Things That Happen When in A Relationship With a Gemini

Many Gemini’s are quick witted and sociable. Like many of us, they are two sides of the same coin, where they can be very serious and shift quickly. They are communicative and ready for fun but also do the hard work that needs to be done.

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1. They are emotionally intense

No other sign in the zodiac can match the intensity of a Gemini. Whatever they do, they do it with reverence or they won’t do it all.

2. They can be self-destructive

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From an outsiders perspective, it may appear to be self-inflicted abuse however a Gemini knows that it may take a melt down in order to build themselves back up again and this time, stronger than ever before.

3. They can be hyper-sensitive

As Gemini’s are highly intuitive and naturally empathic, they tend to absorb the energies of others and reverberate them into their being, let alone trying to cope with their own emotional dealings.

Therefore Gemini’s can be highly sensitive and it is important to support a Gemini, they way they need to be. Reassuring a Gemini “that everything will be o.k” and that there is no need to worry can do wonders for emotional stability.

woman-14. They are introverted

The extroverted introvert, a Gemini loves to be the center of attention when at a vibrational high, yet will become recluse once the energy is either attained or dispelled.

They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.

5. They like fairy tales

Gemini are magicians by nature and they are keen at reading between the lines. Love stories like The Notebook or fairy tales like Cinderella, conjure their inner knowing that miracles are real. A Gemini loves to search for these hidden meanings laying just below the surface and will scratch until they break the veil.

6. They are stubborn

n-HAPPINESS-large570The intensity and tenaciousness of a Gemini can drive them into tunnel vision. Once they are set on something, its hard to make them see anything but what they are focused on.

When offended a Gemini will plant their feet hard and dig in deep. It takes the soothing and calm demeanor of their partner to melt their ice and bring them back to a level head.

7. They are independent

A Gemini is clear to let you know that they really don’t need you, without speaking a word. They are strong, determined and self-sufficient. The hard shell of a Gemini allows them to manage alright when it comes to the everyday, but what they really need is someone who can match their level. No doubt a Gemini has or will have gone through relationships where they assume the leader role and while they can do this with ease, for the long-term they are looking for someone whom they can trust enough to lead them.

It takes a lot to earn the respect and trust of a Gemini and this is because they can see right through you, don’t ever think they can’t.

by LJ Vanier, Team Spirit!