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7 Things That Happen When in A Relationship With a Gemini

Many Gemini’s are quick witted and sociable. Like many of us, they are two sides of the same coin, where they can be very serious and shift quickly. They are communicative and ready for fun but also do the hard work that needs to be done.

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1. They are emotionally intense

No other sign in the zodiac can match the intensity of a Gemini. Whatever they do, they do it with reverence or they won’t do it all.

2. They can be self-destructive

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From an outsiders perspective, it may appear to be self-inflicted abuse however a Gemini knows that it may take a melt down in order to build themselves back up again and this time, stronger than ever before.

3. They can be hyper-sensitive

As Gemini’s are highly intuitive and naturally empathic, they tend to absorb the energies of others and reverberate them into their being, let alone trying to cope with their own emotional dealings.

Therefore Gemini’s can be highly sensitive and it is important to support a Gemini, they way they need to be. Reassuring a Gemini “that everything will be o.k” and that there is no need to worry can do wonders for emotional stability.

woman-14. They are introverted

The extroverted introvert, a Gemini loves to be the center of attention when at a vibrational high, yet will become recluse once the energy is either attained or dispelled.

They are naturally gifted at “small talk”, and know how to be charming without letting outsiders see the real authentic part of them.

5. They like fairy tales

Gemini are magicians by nature and they are keen at reading between the lines. Love stories like The Notebook or fairy tales like Cinderella, conjure their inner knowing that miracles are real. A Gemini loves to search for these hidden meanings laying just below the surface and will scratch until they break the veil. Continue reading

The Nature of the Mind ~ Part 1

       The nature of the mind is both incredibly simple, and incredibly complex. It has an infinite number of ways you can program it, and in todays world, the majority of programs created keep you in bondage. Its purpose is like a rubik’s cube, it is there to challenge us and to encourage us to attain higher states of consciousness that allow us to see deeper, think clearer, and know more.

humanmindpictureAs many of us know, the joy found in solving puzzles is only achieved when we have taken the time to figure it out, and then actually solve it. This applies to the mind as well, except it is a little bit more open. We are all solving this puzzle together, and each of us has a piece.

Of course, we need to listen to each other fully in order to create that harmony, and often, language is the misconstruer of ideas.

Have you ever met someone in the street and had a conversation with them, walked away and thought, “hold on, I just told them ‘a’, and if I told them ‘a’ then they are going to think ‘b’, and if they think ‘b’ then they are going to work out ‘c’, ‘Oh my goodness, I just told them ‘c’?

Woah, hold up a minute, you haven’t told them ‘c’, you simply told them ‘a’. So what happened? It is the nature of the mind to make logical conclusions, however if we are operating within a limited mental data set, then the conclusions that we make may not be so logical.

The mind, with the regular training we all get in todays world, negatively embellishes a situation, scenario or thought process and spirals it out of control until we are all panicky and fretting over nothing. In fact, this happens especially much when the stress levels get higher than what is able to be sustained by the body.

It is in this moment, in the prison that cannot be seen, smelt, heard nor touched that the universe gives us the opportunity to recognize what is really going on, and to overcome.

But the key actually lies in the focus on what you want. If you’re trying NOT to think of something, it just reinforces it. It’s like telling you not to think of pink elephants, you don’t have a choice.

Observing is the first step to see what your mind is actually saying, and why. Listening, paying attention. However, that is just the beginning. One must step into the place of creation in order to actually get there.  You are all 4 elements combined, not just one, or another.

The simple fact of the matter is that we are not the mind nor are we the body; we are that which was never born and can never die. The mind and body are the price of entry for learning in this space/time continuum. Please remember guys, we are not humans pretending to be beings, we are beings pretending to be human.

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A Buddhist walks up to a hotdog vendor and says ‘make me one with everything’ he gives the vendor a $20, the vendor takes the money, and then goes to hand him his change. The Buddhist looks at him simply and then waves his hand, saying only: ‘Change comes from within’.

The Spiritual Purpose of… Ecosexuality

Science has already proven that hugging a tree can be beneficial to your health (http://www.trueactivist.com/science-proves-hugging-trees-is-good-for-health/). But, have you ever had the urge to take your relationship with mother nature to the next level? If so, you may be an Ecosexual.

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Ecosexual is a term coined by Annie Sprinkle and Elizabeth Stephens, who, during their seven year Love Art Laboratory project, staged ecosexual weddings between themselves and the earth, the sky, the sea, the moon, the mountains, and other various elements and entities throughout the nonhuman world. Since then, the practice has drawn many more people who share the urge for intimacy with the natural world, and who may even be “turned on” by it.

When I first learned of this term, and of the people whom it describes, I was very excited. As the creator of sexual wellness products made of crystal, I know what it is to benefit from the beauty and sensuality that is stored within our earth. But I had to ask myself, could I really become aroused by the mud, the water, the sun?

I thought back to the time I tried psychedelic drugs at a friend’s house in Santa Cruz. We were outside, naked, and I happened to sit down on a haystack. I remember first moving my hands around on the hay. It felt so tingly and sensually gratifying  even though it was just a pile of fucking rough hay. Then, I started to notice how great it felt on my thighs and butt as well. So good, in fact, I had to take a few minutes from writing this article just to mentally relive the experience. Needless to say, it wasn’t difficult for me to understand the desire that ecosexuals feel. Sexual energy is an energy just like any other energy. If I remove my preconceptions about what sex is or should be, and imagine myself feeling the warmth of the sun drenching my body in vitamin d; if I imagine myself bathing in nutrient-rich mud, or swimming naked in a lake; it is easy to see the inherent sexuality of communion with nature.

Of course, Ecosexuality is about more than just about dry-humping grass. It’s about respecting and dedicating oneself to preserving our ecosystem. The Ecosex Manifesto written by Annie Sprinkle and Elizabeth Stephens will explain:

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Though I may call myself more eco“sensual” than ecosexual, I love the extra bit of romanticism that this term lends to, for lack of a better term, tree-hugging.

Vanessa Cuccia: Founder and CEO, Chakrubs

Vanessa Cuccia: Founder and CEO, Chakrubs

Vanessa Cuccia is the founder and CEO of @chakrubs. She is based in New York where she does work with crystal healing, is a singer and keyboardist with her band @butterflydresspledge, and studies energetic systems, sexuality, love, and intimacy. You can reach her at [email protected] if you have any topics you would like her to discuss in this column.