As Humanity continues to rise to unthinkable levels of love and connection, integrating a true sense of self love is crucial. This can not be a forced process, for your soul will feel disrespected if you apply pressure or force love where it is not in alignment with how you truly feel.
Loving ones self fully and in truthful emotional alignment is a selfless seed, loving ones self openly and loud to show others what you feel you have achieved inside will only rob you of your moment for expansion.
Self esteem means for one to have a realistic respect and knowing of ones true authenticity and identity, this is confidence in its rightful position.
Self esteem that exaggerates cockiness is usually formed as a source of protection, or heart armor, and can ripple that same emotion to others.
Why is this so? Because you will have separated yourself from who you believe yourself to be in your moment of observation and where you want to be.
Letting go of all attachments to humble ones self will separate your self from your ego mind, which will in turn start the detaching process from your restraints, limits, and attachments to the physical.
Such as: Why do I feel imbalanced and in lack when I think about disconnecting from this or that attachment?? If your answer is because you will lack the comfort the attachment provides, the question here would be which embodies room for growth?
Making a decision out of fear of loss or gaining expansion from stepping out of your comfort zone?
Past every comfort zone is the space for transformation and expansion. In our discomfort we find our ability to be steadfast in our decisions, shinning ones inner strength like the beacon of light you are.
So if your choice was to push through that comfort zone you will have started the process of self evaluation and introspection, and with out attachment to certain belief patterns you will have authentically transformed parts of your true self.
In doing this you are creating a standard for yourself and the collective,this standard is not a loud one, it is a humbled one.
The saint does not go out to the streets with a load speaker announcing his/her self mastery accomplishments. No rather, they embody it mindfully with the grace of a still expression.
I wish you luck on your journey.