“I trust that everything happens for a reason, even if we are not wise enough to see it. When there is no struggle, there is no strength.” Oprah Winfrey
The well-known Greek Philosopher Aristotle, believed that everything happens for a reason, always. And that every experience in your life, was designed to shape you and reform you into the ultimate and greatest version, that could ever imagine yourself to be. The only thing that prevents this, is having the wisdom to see it.
1. In Times of Struggle
Every negative experience; every time of struggle, can then be viewed as an opportunity for tremendous growth. Alike to a caterpillar burrowing from its chrysalis. When all of its forming and changing is complete, its metamorphism has transformed it into a magnificent butterfly. It has shed its former skin, and flown on the wings of new life and a new way of being.
2. In Times of Healing
Some may find it hard to believe that everything happens for a reason, especially when experiencing grief or loss. At the time it may be very difficult to see the blessing in it, as all that is being felt is pain. But it is through our lowest points in life, where we gain the wisdom and allow for new-found strength to emerge. Without loss we wouldn’t appreciate gain, without grief we wouldn’t appreciate love. Without death, we wouldn’t appreciate life and without fear, we wouldn’t appreciate love.
3. In Times of Happiness
By far, the most victorious of all happen stances, when it all comes together in one moment, the AHA moment, as the metaphorical photo finally develops. When we reach the point, after all of the struggles, the self-substantiating realization beams through and we finally see the wisdom behind the subconscious choices we’ve made. Clarity shines through like the morning sun peeking out on the earths horizon.
4. In Times of Chaos
True chaos, cannot be chaos for as long as there is choice involved. Things may appear to be random, but as we all know appearances lie.
“To someone who can’t read, letters on a page appear to be randomly chose when in reality they are precisely ordered.”- Deepak Chopra
Meaningful coincidences and synchronicities may also be viewed as random events with no connection, yet to the eye of the beholder, those events would have a real purpose and meaning.
5. In Times of Reflection
We see the pieces of the puzzle begin to come together, each unfolding a beautiful picture. The pain, the turmoil, the struggles and the victories, each essential building blocks to the molding of who we are today in this present moment.
An unfinished product, always growing, learning and experiencing. And by reflection we see, why it had to happen the way it did.
“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life”- Steve Jobs
by LJ Vanier
You can not ever get what you never got, you can get now what you get now but
you can never get what you never got.
And your drunk!
Everything Happens For A Reasons? Its Real?
Acrually I have completed my Engineering and just moved other city for one course then I come In to my city and one month nothing happen not get a call from any organisation for job then I have joined training for another course(industrial training),when I joined training their time only one thing in my I need a job l,,,,,i need a job,,,, but I met three friends two are in relationship with each others and one and me is not but something happen I don’t want to do love and all that things but what happend I don’t know I loved with which person which I don’t want to love her but its happens and didn’t got job till date searching searching and searching giving interviews but not getting success I am wasted some time to love her (one sided).she hates me and many things happen and so much gap between our friendship, I am thinking I am the bad person nothing doing for my future
what it is happend for a reason?
I don’t think so….
Everything happens for a reason, even if we don’t yet see or understand the reason(s). The message will continue to be sent until it is received. You still haven’t received the message. You can’t see the forest for the trees in situations like yours. There are well over 7 billion people on this planet, don’t get caught up on the ones that can’t see your worth. Usually, humans only live for about 30,000 days… That seems like a lot until you look at how quickly a year goes by and that’s 365 days. Time is only of the only things we can’t get back once it’s gone and yet so few people ever accurately value their time.
Brother …The reason for your situation is that you wanted to not fall in love with her …you didn’t want to fall in love so now you are unemployed ,love failure and frustrated!! So,now if your in this state nobody will love you….you got what you want you won’t fall in love because now you won’t have anyone to fall in love.They will run away from including your friend who hate you.
Only thing you need to do is fall in love with everyone you meet in a humane way and love someone with expecting anything from them .I know it might sound dumb to you still it works !
Stop doing the same mistake of blaming yourself for loving someone and calling it as waste of time..just because you couldn’t get her it doesn’t mean you wasted your time! Instead concentrate fully with all love in yourself towards your carrier.
Things will fall in places ..
Love from a unknown sister!!???