Many us of experience what we call a ‘midlife crisis’. What does this really mean? For a lot of people, it means they have ignored their internal guidance system for so long, and that built up pressure now has to release. If you’ve been denying, lying and ignoring your inner desires, these can manifest as a ‘midlife crisis.’

This can look like feeling lost, drastic shifting of desires and a radical change in life style. If you’ve been unhappy with your partner, are suppressing sexual energies or have been keeping something to yourself for a long time – it is going to come to surface. 

A typical midlife-crisis involves the following phases:

* The first phase is called the state of denial. People withdraw from family life and worry a lot in this phase.

* The second phase is when people become restless and irritable.

* The bombshell is dropped in the next phase of truth, and confrontation is met. Sometimes a relapse occurs to the phase of anger.

* Depression is the next phase, with all the negative emotions that belong with it. Nothing makes sense. Continue reading →

We are aware of the words Soul, Self and the Higher or Supreme self. We often mistakenly get confused and consider these three words meaning as same. But there is a fundamental difference in consciousness that these words represent.

The Soul is the individual, Self and Supreme self-are Universal.

A relationship is never the answer to your loneliness. The feelings of emptiness, unhappiness, depression and self-hate are already inside of you. Most people tend to create new relationships based not on what they want, but in response to what they perceive to lack. They look outside of themselves, saying, “when I find someone, I will be happy, satisfied, and fulfilled’.

When they do find someone to have a relationship with, it is exciting and fulfilling for a few months, or maybe a few years. When the original feelings come up again, they start blaming the other person for their loneliness, depression, self-hate and their unhappy life, and may even start to hate the other person. The other person, in turn, may dim their own light, by demanding your energy, time, and your personality.

It is their fear, their pain and their depression that starts chasing you, sucking your energy and imprisoning your beautiful free soul. You may do the same to them because of your own emptiness. This is not what you were looking for. 

NOTHING outside of yourself, not a relationship or another person, will ever bring you true happiness, fulfillment or peace of heart. You are your own hero, your own lover, your own answer to all of your prayers, and your own TRUE LOVE.

Nothing outside of yourself will ever truly satisfy you

Today is the day to become your own True Love! Start to love every aspect of yourself, including all of your Darkness and your Light. Start to appreciate and love your own personality; become your own best friend. Find out what nourishes your soul, and find the sacredness in each moment: Take a walk in the forest. Talk to the spirits. Watch funny movies in your bed. Create art, or write from deep inside of your soul. Start to embrace all that you are in your divinity.

Stop waiting for something or someone outside of you. YOU are what you’ve been looking and waiting for the whole time. Stop searching, stop demanding. Each of us is a free, sovereign spirit, meant only to share and celebrate our true essences together. Nurture yourself and listen to your inner voice. Get to know YOU! Give yourself all that you need and want as you start to become aware of yourself.

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Swimming in the depths of our emotional waters, Pisces the fish is one of the most sensitive signs out there. The 12th and last sign in the zodiac, Pisces are usually incredibly wise beyond their age, they would be considered an “old soul ” to many. They are very much in touch with their emotions, intuition and the artistic side with themselves.

As a Pisces-Aquarius cusp I embody the emotional water and the mental air aspects of these signs.

They Can Be Extremely Sensitive 

That is one of the weak points of the Pisces, represented by the symbol of fish, diving deep into the emotional waters of consciousness. Is is important when in an intimate relationship with a Pisces not invalidate their emotions.

Try to see where they’re coming from even when those emotional waters get murky, people feel a way for a reason. Hear your partner out objectively as you can to see the core of what they’re saying.

To be as a non-judgmental as you can is one of the most supportive things you can do when in a relationship with this sign. It takes a certain level of sensitivity in yourself to reflect that higher level of emotional awareness as well. It can be a great way to heighten your sensitivities and empathic abilities as well.

They Have A Natural Intuition

Being in touch with your emotional body allows a certain ability to read people based on their energy, body language, tone of voice and their actions.

You can’t really lie to a Pisces, even when they aren’t sure exactly what’s wrong, they can sense something is. Being honest and vulnerable is crucial to being intimate relationship with a Pisces. Continue reading →