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Research Suggests Modern Parenting Is Preventing Brain Development

Let’s look at a few blunt (and disturbing) facts about our society.  Children are more overweight than any other time in history.  They play more video games and watch more television than ever before.  Children are being overstimulated with soda and cartoons and then we pump them full of drugs when they can’t focus inside a classroom.  Parents are getting divorces at a higher rate than any other time in history, which strongly impacts a child’s sense of worth and personal development.  Not to mention, there are a whole host of false parenting beliefs and cultural beliefs that have been proven to cause brain and emotional health problems within children:

“Ill-advised practices and beliefs have become commonplace in our culture, such as the use of infant formula, the isolation of infants in their own rooms or the belief that responding too quickly to a fussing baby will ‘spoil’ it,”  says Darcia Narvaez, Notre Dame professor of psychology reporting on a recent study.

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This is What Happens When You Drink Lemon Water First Thing in The Morning

The lemon is widely known for its health benefits.  It is rich in magnesium, fibers, enzymes, potassium, calcium, antioxidants, iron, calcium and vitamins C and B. Moreover, it is known for its weight loss aid as well as for its antiviral, immune-boosting, and antibacterial properties. Don’t hesitate and start your day with a glass of warm lemon water. This simple routine will do wonders for your health.

Recipe:

All you need to do is to squeeze ½ fresh lemon in a glass of lukewarm water. It is recommended to use organic lemon, not bottled one.  Drink the water right away. This should be the first thing you do in the morning, before you eat and workout.

1. Cleanses Your System and is a Diuretic

Being an antiseptic acid, lemon juice has the ability to cleanse your entire system, flushing out all harmful chemicals andtoxins. As it increases urination to flush all toxins, it helps in normal bowel movement. In addition, lemon water helps in increasing the production of enzymes that stimulate liver detoxification function.

2.  Clears Skin

According to many studies, lemon contains antioxidants that help in compensating dead skin cells. It also heals blemishes, and fights any free radical that could potentially harm the skin. Finally, it helps in the fight against bacteria that cause acne, it revitalizes the damaged ski, it delays the process of aging and it leads to youthful and more glowing skin.

3. Boosts Your Immune System

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It is a well-known fact that lemon is one of the best sources of vitamin C. As a result, it increases immune system resistance to diseases and it helps in fighting common colds. It is rich in potassium as well, a mineral that helps in controlling blood pressure levels.  Continue reading

3 Steps To Healing Emotional Wounds After A Break Up

What do we see when we look around at how people are taught to deal with breakups? They completely cut out contact (forever in some cases), they try to force themselves to not feel sad or depressed by drinking or partying, they feel next to no self-worth for a while, and they have a permanent scar inside them from the memory of being hurt or betrayed by that person.  Some people spend years, even decades together and expect to heal themselves using the conventional breakup model that has been fed to them by pop culture and society.

We force ourselves to move on without fully understanding what happened, and then we feel a weird dissonance inside of us for a long period after that because there was absolutely no clarity or transparency with what happened.  Let me propose a much better model that I have been using for my current breakup:

1) Be close to one another

When you are with someone, you become a part of them.  When you break up with them, act as though you are still a part of them.  In an energetic sense, they really are still a part of you.  If it is necessary to do so, be there for each other, support each other, lend a listening ear, and give each other permission to fully communicate how you feel at every level.shutterstock_321111989

Just because you aren’t in a relationship anymore shouldn’t make you enemies, no matter how awful the other person was to you or how badly they hurt you.

Your parents and friends will tell you “you need to stop communicating with them”, or “you need to just move on and forget about everything”, but deep down you want to support them with their heartbreak and you want them to support you with your heartbreak.   Continue reading

The Imporant Health Benefits of Burning & Using Frankincense

frankinFrankincense is an aromatic resin obtained from the Boswellia tree, which grows throughout Asia and Africa.

Most of us are familiar with frankincense from religious ceremonies when a piece of the white aromatic resin is put on a charcoal fire.

Frankincense is one of the oldest fragrances.

It was traded 5000 years ago in the Arabian Peninsula and North Africa, where it was valued as high as gold.

The frankincense route runs from southern Arabia to the Mediterranean, and it is one of the oldest trade routes in the world.

People in Egypt used it for embalming mummies.

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The Science of Crying: Why It’s Healthy & Necessary For Personal Growth

Did you know that human beings aren’t the only animals that feel sadness? Almost all animals express sadness, depression, and loneliness in their own way.  In fact, almost all mammals mourn the loss of their offspring.  But human beings are the only type of animal that are taught self-expression should be tamed or suppressed.  Girls are told to stop being so “sensitive”, and boys are told to “be a man” and toughen up.  Boys are taught that crying to much means they are a sissy, and girls are told crying too much makes them crazy.

We aren’t told that crying is actually essential and is something we should do more of if we feel it’s what we need to do to express ourselves.  We develop resistance to crying, which causes emotional suppression, which causes psychological and physical complications.  We bottle up our emotions and expect them to take care of themselves, when the cure to our problems is sometimes as simple as allowing ourselves to actually feel deeply for a moment.

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How to Cleanse Negative Energies by Smudging

Since humans have existed on this wonderful blue and green planet, smudging and the burning of incense has been used as a way to cleanse and purify the energy of spaces. While its practice has been most associated with that of indigenous people, religious and secret societies, and hippie or new-age subcultures, its use and its benefit belongs to all people, the way water and oxygen do, and can be used a way to provide greater comfort and ease within living spaces and shared environments.

Smudging is neither voodoo, nor magic. It requires no belief system or breaks from known cultural tradition. The decision to smudge, burn incense or not is a practical one, really. It’s simply a matter of how free and clear of negative energies do you wish the spaces you spend time in to be.

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Smudging is the burning of sacred herbs, with sage being the most commonly used. The smoke produced from its burning, or the burning of incense is what naturally cleanses and purifies an area of negative energies. When it comes to smudging or burning incense, it’s all about the smoke, not the flame. Smoke cleanses in the same manner as water, by dispersion and elimination.

Negative energies are pervasive in our civilized society and are found in most living areas, work environments and shared spaces. Negative energies, unlike what is portrayed in the movies, generally consists of self-judgments, judgments of others, fears for the future, regrets from the past, hidden resentments and emotional suppression. Most people, whether they are aware of it or not are prone to these thoughts and activities.

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And even if you feel that you’re not prone, you can unknowingly become affected and influenced, once you have walked into, and spent time in a space where another person has. This is because we are all affected and influenced by the quality of energy we encounter on a daily basis, and while we like to imagine we are in control of our state of mind and emotions, energies experienced within a shared space, can and will influence you. Continue reading